3 Things your Kids are Telling You
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Equipping parents during their child’s academic years to bring learning to daily moments.
on today’s episode…
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle discusses three things that children communicate to their parents, whether through words or actions.
insights
In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Cagle discusses three things that children communicate to their parents, whether through words or actions. The first is the need for attention, which can be expressed through behaviors like screaming or repeating themselves. The second is the need for downtime, which may be indicated by crying over small things or becoming overly aggressive. The third is the feeling of safety, which can be demonstrated through physical affection or starting conversations with phrases like 'don't tell anyone.' By understanding these messages, parents can better respond to their children's needs.
Takeaways
Children often communicate their need for attention through behaviors like screaming or repeating themselves.
The need for downtime can be expressed through crying over small things or becoming overly aggressive.
Children demonstrate their feeling of safety through physical affection and starting conversations with phrases like 'don't tell anyone.'
By understanding these messages, parents can better respond to their children's needs.
Summary
3 things your kids are telling you– with or without words:
I want your attention
Screaming child
Child saying the same thing repetitively
When they actually tell you
I need down time
Child crying over something they usually don’t cry about
Child getting aggressive
Struggling to abide by a typical routine
I feel safe with you
Running into your arms
Starting the conversation with, “don’t tell anyone, but…”
Crying with you
Practical advice: I hope you feel more empowered to recognize some of your child’s behaviors could be tied to what they’re trying to tell you with or without words.
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